The best way for a woman to date in New York City is to keep it casual and make sure that any man interested in her understands that she is dating other guys. It immediately gives the message to the guy that other men are interested in her, which validates him and his interest in her.
Secondly, men love to compete against one another when it comes to female attention.
First off, to say that this is not an apple to big apple comparison is an understatement - it's comparing an apple to a bushel of apples.
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I've lived and dated in both these cities in the past few years.
Dating in NYC is 'easier', but with significant caveats.
There are 200,000 more single women than single men in the Big Apple, so men are kings here!
And I will be the first one to admit that most NYC men have a little bit of an entitlement issue when it comes to women. But I would call them "repercussionless daters." Their mentality is such that if the woman they are on a date with isn't giving them exactly what they want, they have no problem ending the date abruptly and moving on to the next woman, who they believe is around the corner waiting in desperation to go out with them.
But then I thought to myself, maybe I'm just picking or attracting the wrong guys.
Then again, my friends have had similar experiences, so it can't JUST be me.No matter how well you thought you understood the opposite sex, any woman who excitedly enters New York eventually finds that her usual tricks and track record don't apply across the Brooklyn-, Manhattan-, Verrazano-, Queensboro- or George Washington bridge because, well, we're working with a different animal here.It's like the island of misfit men and entering said island will make you as crazy and haunted as the depleted women still inhabiting it.With 8.4 million people living in New York City, one may find it hard to believe that dating there is tough. I didn't believe it when people told me the guys in New York City were different and that finding a boyfriend amongst over 8 million people is next to impossible. At first, this statement was just an opinion I formulated based off of the experiences I have had with guys in this city thus far. While I can't say the task of finding a good man is insurmountable, I can tell you from experience, it isn't easy. Because a large majority of the men in New York aren't looking for anything serious.So, even without the gender skew, there are just a lot more women in NYC, and a lot more types of women.