He (or she) is too tall, too attractive, too smart, too funny, too ambitious or just too plain awesome to be interested in you, right? I've come to the realization that no one is truly "out of my league," and here's why.
Let's get this straight: this is no self-serving, pretentious piece proclaiming my alluring charm and dashing good looks. I still struggle with my body image issues and self-esteem just like many others do.
Someone who looks great and has the confidence to match would certainly ‘rate’ higher than someone who is naturally blessed but is a wallflower.
And don’t let the movie fool you into thinking that this phenomenon restricted to average Joes, it applies just as well to average Janes too! Think back to the times you watched Ugly Betty – she was into a guy who people considered completely out of her league! Well of course, it’s just a means of expression, but the truth is that most of us create our own leagues.
There is a phrase that I'm working on eliminating from my vocabulary, and it's one that we all use too frequently.
When analyzing the potential compatibility between ourselves and a suitor, oftentimes, the "he's out of my league" excuse comes into play.
Does anyone else date someone out of their 'league'. He gets a lot of attention from girls but had social anxiety so found it difficult making friends/ seeing girls. If I'm complete Ly honest I would say I'm a 7/ 8.5 (with make up) BUT I find that in general the percentage of 'attractive' girls seems to be higher (I believe), so although I am okay, I don't stand out the way he does.
My problem is sometimes I feel so insecure knowing that he gets soo much attention.
In popular culture, people often give themselves and others a number rating between 1 and 10, that reflects their ‘hotness’ quotient or attractiveness.
Coming back to the movie, here is a good representation of what a numerical rating looks like: Now this ‘superiority’ is not restricted to looks alone – it actually deals with an individual’s personality as a whole.
Figuring Out Her "League"Showing You're Interested With Body Language Approaching the Woman Gauging Her Interest Community Q&A A girl or woman being "out of your league" means different things to different people.