Approach with respect So widespread is the stereotype of Thai women as masseurs or sex workers in the global media, that the average woman in Thailand is hesitant to be seen with a male foreigner, in case her moral and professional leanings are misinterpreted.
Because of prejudices and misconceptions, try and approach your Thai lady with respect, honor and love.
The first thing to remember is that girls can touch the guys but the guys CANNOT touch the girls.
Western notions about Thai women are more often than not colored by the popular idea of Thailand as the country of sex workers and massage parlors.
While it is certainly true that the flesh trade is a problem in the country, the average Thai woman is a person of values, family-oriented and like most women all over the world, trying to live her life with dignity and choices.
Girls that work in bars are for having fun in the short term and that is as far as it goes.
Both Thai men and women know this but for some strange reason many male visitors to Thailand just don't get it. Many people who have met my wife and I ask where I found such a wonderful person, well it wasn't easy. The best place to meet someone is where she works (not a bar).
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Thailand is a class society and the girls working in the bars are part of the lower class.
Any well-educated and successful Thai man knows this also and would not think of marring a girl of this status.
Although this article is written mainly for the guys, the ladies will learn a lot of what and what not to do in public with your friends or mate of the opposite sex.
The men will also learn the real way courtship works in Thailand and why.
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